No one is going to take away the victory if the fans admit we were a little lucky. It doesn't diminish the victory; it doesn't mean we didn't deserve it.
The precise detail of what exactly is "clear and obvious," and whether it should be a yellow, red, or orange card doesn't particularly matter. Decisions, from the ref, and even from VAR, are more random than that. Both could have gone either way, and both tosses of the coin landed in our favour. Furthermore, the red of course never happens if the penalty is given 60 seconds before.
And that's fine. Do we deserve this promotion? Probably. But because of a fight to end spirit, a 96 point season, and an epic comeback in the semi. If we got a little lucky in the final, let's admit it. It doesn't change the fact, we're going up.